I would say , this may be the most hated words I would like
to hear !!! So dear friends and readers bear with me .....I believe in doing everything
in its time and time for everything !!!
Sorry dear, I don’t agree with the statement at all. Every
human being have the same time to each
one`s credit ., it all depends on how you mange and utilize it and how you line
up your priorities .
That is a art ...a skill ...neatly practiced .once you practice it ,you will have time for everything ....to work ,to enjoy, to relax
,.for fun , to fight , to sleep ,to read, to sing and do whatever you want to
do in this life ........time for everything and everyone you love
I would say , this may be the most hated words I would like
to hear !!! So dear friends and readers bear with me .....I believe in doing everything
in its time and time for everything !!!
That is a art ...a skill ...neatly practiced .once you practice it ,you will have time for everything ....to work ,to enjoy, to relax
,.for fun , to fight , to sleep ,to read, to sing and do whatever you want to
do in this life ........time for everything and everyone you love
Time flies :
The saying is absolutely true that time and tide never waits
for none . When someone say “i dint have the time “ or Wish I had the time ....I personally feel it is
nothing but an excuse ...and excuse to run away from all the possible blame or
accusations we make on them
Let me put it in this way .....just think friends
...think.....suppose ...just suppose someone is ill (someone who had done a lot
of things for you in the past , someone who was close to you once) ....Deep inside we feel , know and realize that we should make some contact with them through a visit or at least a call
......
We know that by doing so we are making them feel wanted , showing them
our love and concern , and both of us would feel good and happy ........Maybe
even our parents would keep on pestering and reminding us to do the same
......but somehow we kept postponing that ....and one fine day you get to hear
that person is no more ......and then we regretfully say ...Oh Man !!! Wish I had the time .....but then we go on
consoling ourselves saying ... ‘but then I was so busy ‘!!!
Later we dutifully or under completion of our parents, do
visit the family of the deceased ,but do you think there is any point in that ?
Any value for the sorry we say
?Obviously the grieving family will say “oh ,never mind , it is okay “ .
But
then are you really deserving that forgiveness?
We keep on saying sorry , saying we dint have time ,but then
I would say that is one stupid excuse we are laying in front of others to cover
our guilt ,for deep inside we know that If ....if ....if ....we have managed to make some
time out of our routine then perhaps we could have never had to be this sorry .....Only
if we have organised our time , rescheduled our tasks ....then maybe we both
would have felt much better , much happier and really close to each other.
So in short , never say that you failed to do something
because you were busy ,or because you dint have the time ....for the real
reason is because your priorities were something different
The fact is we never gave it much a thought ....of visiting or calling them....we dint give it much importance because for us there were
many other chores lined up in our mind ...and it was just one among them which
we considered to be of least importance ......until when we realized it was too
late ......
It is better that we don’t try to explain ,nor to make any
excuse ,whenever we fail to do our duties . The more we try to explain the more
ugly the situation becomes. It is better that we keep quiet and later on do
something unexpectedly for them to make them happy ...Maybe then they will
value you more .
That is what I feel ,It is one general thought that always
wander in my mind ...whenever I hear someone saying that they dint have the
time ;-)
